On Combat: Peaceful Warriors

Hi there,

I'm just re-reading 'On Combat: The Psychology and Physiology of Deadly Conflict in War and in Peace' (fourth edition) by Dave Grossman and Loren Christensen.

What a book! It takes a comprehensive look at physiological changes due to battle conditions, including the impact on the nervous system, heart, breathing, visual and auditory perception and also memory. As such, it's a good reminder of how we're affected in times of acute (and sometimes chronic) stress.

It also features some research findings on what combatants can do to reduce such effects and stay functional, which is clearly relevant to encounters beyond the battlefield and, I would argue, especially in therapy.

It also features a brief look the evolution of combat and Grossman's concept of the "Bulletproof mind" (including post-battle emotions and thinking style, such as relief and self-blame). Again, I think this is directly relevant to therapy and speaks to the value of good, ongoing, clinical supervision for therapists (and more broadly clinical colleagues of any kind).

Overall, I'm finding it a very sobering and thoughtful read. It has lots of quotes from military minds across the ages and provides much needed food for thought when it comes to considering the overall impact of threatening situations upon the self and how we can work with this. Unsurprisingly, from a CFT perspective, it's very much about self to self relating as a primary vehicle for negotiating distress tolerance.

In particular I like the authors focus on the 'Peaceful Warrior' and how their attempt is not to glorify combat but, instead, remind the reader that most of us who find ourselves in threatening situations are typically there to try and help others and often, in one form or another, 'keep the peace'.

There's so much great reading out there, I'll keep you updated on anything else I think might be of interest but in the meantime…….

Peace out.

Syd

Memory Lane 2

Further to Syd’s recent post Memory Lane, I found this picture from 1994 (when I was 10!) of me and my brother with the great Kim Stones. The picture was also taken by my father (we all ended up becoming 1st Degree Black Belts in Taekwondo).

This evokes so many memories and feelings…of the joy of training together, of being surrounded and inspired by other great martial artists…like Syd said, it’s amazing how rediscovering such images makes you realise how time passes and reminds you of important experiences on your journey in life.

Peace,

Neil

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Martial Arts and Compassion Cultivation

Hi all,

We have just written and published a short online blog that gives a nice overview of how martial arts can help therapists develop and enhance compassion. Check it out here:

https://365daysofcompassion.wordpress.com/2019/07/23/martial-arts-and-compassion-the-new-way-for-therapists-syd-hiskey-and-neil-clapton/

This piece briefly highlights the relevance and importance of marital arts in developing radically embodied compassion. It also gives you a further taste of what we're all about here at FCMA and what you can expect to get out of our workshops.

Thanks to the lovely Chris Winson for posting this on his #365daysofcompassion blog. Happy reading!

Warmest Wishes,

Neil

Memory lane

Hi,

Isn’t funny how you come across old pictures that both capture an important moment in your life and remind you that time flies.

Here’s a shot of Dan Inosanto (one of Bruce Lee’s original students and inspirational martial artist in his own right), Dave Coulson (my current martial arts mentor) and me.

It’s from July 2005 in London and was taken at the end of a weekend long training Seminar with Dan (and his fellow Instructor Joel Clark).

It was a full-on whirlwind of Jeet Kune Do, Kali, Dan’s own blend of Fillipino arts and wisdom.

Given the feelings rediscovering this picture have reminded me of, why not spend a few minutes going through your own albums and see what comes up.

Better still, perhaps spend a few minutes also thinking about inspirational figures you’d like to meet/train with and see if you can make this happen.

Well discuss much more on this when we explore Role Models as part of our Introductory x1 day FCMA workshop. Hope to see you there.

Peace,

Syd

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Miyamoto Musashi

Hi there.

Miyamoto Musashi (宮本 武蔵, c. 1584 – June 13, 1645), was a Japanese samurai, philosopher, strategist and writer. He was renowned for his two-bladed swordsmanship and undefeated record of 61 duels. He is the Kensei or sword-saint of Japan.

He was the founder of the Niten-Ichi-Ryū-School or Nito-Ichi-ryū style of swordsmanship, and authored The Book of Five Rings (五輪の書 Go Rin No Sho), and Dokkōdō (The Path of Aloneness).

The Book of Five Rings deals primarily with the character of his Niten-Ichi-Ryū-School in a concrete sense e.g. his own practical martial art and its significance; The Path of Aloneness on the other hand, deals with the ideas that lie behind it, as well as his life's philosophy in a few sentences.

One of my favourite quotes, attributed to Musashi, is “The truth is not what you want it to be; it is what it is, and you must bend to its power or live a lie.”

In keeping with this, our aim is to make Fierce Compassion as ‘true’ as we can. If not we’re surely wasting our time? As such, our techniques must be trained with purpose and focus.

Peace,

Syd

Two types of anger

Hi all,

I’ve just seen a great quote from the Dalai Lama that seems to capture what we at Fierce Compassion Martial Arts are all about.

“There are two types of anger. One type arises out of compassion; that kind of anger is useful. Anger that is motivated by compassion or a desire to correct social injustice, and does not seek to harm the other person, is a good anger that is worth having.”

I think this speaks centrally to why I became fascinated by the martial arts and centrally to why Neil and I developed FCMA over the last few years.

There’s a lot of wisdom out there in terms of how we turn our most potentially harmful urges into something halting and ultimately helpful.

Train wisely.

Syd

Training, training, training

Hi all,

Just a quick post to say I’m hoping to train with Rick Young (Jeet Kune Do), Bob Breen (4D) and Phil Norman (Ghost) over the Summer (2019).

We’re still in the process of sorting out specific dates but it looks like Dave Coulson (Hybrid Defence) and I will be attending, to soak up further knowledge from these masters of their respective arts.

Watch this space for more in the coming months.

Syd

Site launch

Hi. Neil and I are delighted to get the site up and running and just wanted to say a few words about the paper we’re currently working on.

It’s working title is ‘On anger: The martial arts and embodied distress tolerance in psychological therapy’. In it we argue that the martial arts may be a useful adjunct to traditional psychotherapy in the sense that such training has been associated with increases in positive self-image, in the ability to tolerate pain and enhance self-regulation.

The martial arts can also help develop personal virtues such as courage, temperance, wisdom and benevolence which may be highly relevant to therapy too. Training in the martial arts involves risk, and courage enables action/responsiveness in response to fear, as well as the ability to continue despite pain. Moreover, it has been found that martial arts students report reduced aggressiveness, potentially in light of their instructors modelling self-control and moral behaviour in class.

It may be important to distinguish traditional martial arts, exemplified featuring an emphasis on the psychological, spiritual, and non-aggressive elements of the particular style from more modern arts (for example mixed martial arts), which tend to downplay such elements in favour of skilful aggressiveness and competition. The jury is still out on this one!

In relation to the traditional arts an interview study of Psychotherapists experienced in Aikido, noted that “[Martial arts] practice is a practice to learn a certain state of being. Aikido is no longer what you do on the mat, Aikido is what you do. In Aikido you have some crazy attacker coming at you, and your goal is to be relaxed and centered and calm and able to absorb and join with, just be there with that energy, in a way that can accept and redirect it. A lot of what you do in therapy is the same thing – just be there and not be overwhelmed by what’s going on, and that has a very calming effect.”

In particular the potential for Aikido to help therapists remain centred while also available to the patient is a familiar theme across the therapy literature. Therapists are encouraged to be physically, emotionally, and relationally ‘with’ clients. Some have alluded to the ‘total relationship’, or to ‘being present’ or with an ‘evenly suspended attention’ during therapy. As in the martial arts, a sense of centre can lead to a more appropriate and perhaps, we argue, a compassionate response in therapy.

Do watch this space for further news over the coming weeks.

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